Back, tentatively, after a busy month. One from Oxford, when I did the old 'compose and wait' thing until something vaguely interesting appeared in front of me:
It's a month since I was in Oxford, although it seems like six. In that time mother had her fall and was hospitalised for just over a couple of weeks. A few days after her fall I turned 60 and my brother turned up unexpectedly from the States. That was good timing - he was a great help getting mother's house ready for her coming home. I wrote last time there was some debate whether or not that would be feasible but true to form she decided to give it a try and so home again she is. She's getting stronger, albeit very slowly - I guess the body doesn't heal too quickly when you are a nonagenarian. For the moment she's accepting some help from a care team, who come in three times a day for help with personal care and meals. The meal prep part is a 'heat and serve' service, so they don't actually prepare meals. What they will do is make a cup of tea and microwave whatever food has been left out for them. They are in and out in 15 minutes, max. It is a good help, although obviously it could be a lot better. The girls are all very pleasant but it's clear they are stretched to the limit - they don't have time to chat. The worst aspect is the timing of their visits - there are no set times. So they might come one day at 12 noon, two o'clock and then 4 o'clock. The next day it might be 8am when they come. Or noon again. So there might be no help between 4pm and noon the following day - and that's a long time for someone who is virtually bed-bound. Obviously I'm able to fill in the gaps but if I wasn't there, well, it would be worrying. We'll see how things progress.
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