Grass by the River Bann. Hasselblad/HP5+/Fotospeed lith on Foma 131 paper |
As I turned down the side road to the river I could see a tractor and trailer combination coming up towards me, albeit some way away. I did the decent thing and pulled into the verge and waited. Now usually in these parts this would result in an acknowledgement of some sort by the tractor driver - a hand or a nod of the head. Not so on this occasion. He looked directly at me but pointedly did not raise his hand or acknowledge my action in any way. Interesting. There are two possible reasons, I reckon. Either he's just plain rude and reckoned that since he was about 20 times bigger than me I had no choice other than to pull over and so Why should he thank me? Or, he's a local and this is his road and What business did I have in driving down here anyway? Thankfully people like that are still rare enough in these parts (although perhaps getting more common, sad to say). Most country drivers understand 'the code' and a hand or sometimes just a finger lifted off the steering wheel is enough to acknowledge the presence and decency of the other driver. I've been in vehicles driven by older people who lift a hand to every car they pass on a country road - as if it's a throwback to times when cars were uncommon and everyone knew everyone else in their locality. Nowadays of course no-one knows anyone (except those who live next door to you) and so these customs are dying out, to be replaced by....nothing. All too often these days it feels like it's every man (and woman) for themselves.
Another lovely lith print, Michael :) I really love the way they come out from your darkroom over the sea.
ReplyDeleteI've never been to Northern Ireland of course, but just have to say that stopping for people on a single track road seems to ever so slightly give me a higher blood pressure these days. As you say... where've that tiny little sign of acknowledgement been going these days? Out the back door somewhere, I suppose. Still there's a few of us practicing the method, so we probably just have to keep on keeping on, don't you think?
That said, I've been driving around on Shetland where people seemed to more or less hang out of the side window to thank you, and also seen some well behaving way down in England believe it or not... so all is not lost, my friend! :))
Thanks Roy - appreciated.
DeleteGood to know civility still exists here and there - pity it's not practiced by more, but hey ho it's a strange old world and getting stranger by the day. I blame Brexit. Or Trump. Or both ;)